Introduction

Is your love life in crisis? Have you ever felt like your partner just doesn't understand your needs in a relationship? Do little things sometimes seem to lead to big arguments? Are you seeking wisdom on marriage? Love requires more than just speaking the same language as your partner – be it English, French, or Chinese – that by itself is not enough. Everyone has different ways of expressing and accepting love (aka different love languages) – and understanding this...

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We all crave the most basic human need: Love!

We all want love - it's a basic human need. Don't you agree? But its complications stress us day and night, and most of us act out when we don't get enough love from our close ones. Be it the love that a child craves from a parent or the love that a wife expects from her husband, philosophers, and religion say it is love that gives life meaning. Have you ever wondered about the kind of love you're looking for...

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What you do once the "honeymoon period" is over is a must for a lasting relationship!

Falling in love - magical! Staying in love? Hard work!! This is where most marriages falter! The thing is that a new romance alters our reality and clouds our judgment. The deadly attraction leads to an obsession where we choose a partner to satisfy our primal instinct of reproduction. Dorothy Tennov, a psychologist, carefully researched the new romance phase between couples. Dorothy concluded that any relationship based on romance lasts for just two years (on average). The condition is universal,...

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Speaking words of affirmation to a partner builds a stronger relationship.

Loving someone and expressing love are two different things. Whether you are a naturally expressive person or not, speaking the love language called ‘words of affirmation’ can go a long way. Do you compliment your partner and speak gently? We all need reassurance sometimes, and praise from your lover is THE best feeling in the world! So, next time your partner gets a promotion, tell them you're proud of them for what they've achieved. Appreciate the little things they do....

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Spending quality time together and gift-giving is a delightful way to express love and strengthen your bond!

Just imagine a scenario: You're sitting with your partner while he watches Netflix on a laptop and you're busy scrolling. Does this seem like quality time to you? Probably not. So ask yourself: Do I find time to give undivided attention to my partner? And therein, you'll find answers to many relationship problems of the modern day!Today's fast-paced life is filled with distractions, and one must go out of the way to spend quality time with a partner. For example,...

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Express love by doing useful tasks for the loved one.

What changes once a couple decides to live together? Going on a date or planning a vacation is an entirely different experience from living together in a household. Once you live within a person's proximity, things like finances or daily chores become critical. And that's why doing an act of service for a partner is a generous expression of love and our next love language. This is exactly why living together might feel overwhelming. A partner might expect you to...

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Physical touch is a strong expression of love!

Last up, is the 5th and possibly the most important love language – that of physical touch and affection. Just like helping your partner, staying in a physically intimate relationship is a great love language.Let's explore this a bit further.At its core, lack of physical touch is a major problem in a relationship. Some people really need that physical connection. Kissing, holding hands, and similar gestures are important means of expressing love to most people. A lack of physical closeness...

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The Final Piece of the Puzzle: Identifying Your Love Language

By now you’ve got a good overview of the five love languages – words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. But knowing the options is only half the battle. The real magic happens when you finally put a name to your own primary love language. Pinpointing your unique love language can require some real soul-searching, but it reveals so much. So, play the detective and ask yourself: what did I beg for most from...

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Summary

Gary Chapman explores the different ways in which people express love. Understanding your partner's love language will help you create a lifelong bond with your partner. Reading The Five Love Languages will help you improve communication with your partner and will take your relationship to new heights! Take advice from the best in the field, and you'll be able to create a lifelong connection with your beloved!